Pat Stedman Blog

Should You Date A “Tomboy?”

A term that is perhaps less common these days (yet nevertheless persists) is the “tomboy” — aka the girl who is “one of the guys.” Part of the reason we hear about less about these types of women in “the current year” is because many these days are encouraged to identify as lesbian or “non-binary.” […]

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Interview With Integrated Couple Sarabeth & Noble Brown

NEW INTERVIEW just dropped with Integrated Couple @SarabethUrech and @Sociopathlete A sophisticated convo about what it takes to have a high-level, passionate relationship… This will appeal strongly for intelligent men who are drawn to fierce, accomplished women… yet who want to give up NOTHING when it comes to intimacy and sexual polarity. LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to the

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Game vs Connection

Yesterday’s email was a hard hitter. And it really makes you wonder — if game lends itself towards validation-seeking, and you want connection instead of validation-seeking… what is the point of game? OK, maybe it helps you to “hook up.” But if you’re not interested in doing that, and you want to move right to

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The Truth About Daddy’s Girls

This is going to be an email that falls on a lot of deaf ears. The manosphere indoctrination on this topic is deep; challenging it is likely to trigger many of you. You’ve heard of “momma’s boys,” obviously. And, if you’re a man with any masculine instinct whatsoever, you don’t want to be one —

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Female Vindictiveness

One of the the common scenarios I deal with in my practice is divorce. Guys come to me either too late in their marriage — they have “terminal relationship cancer” — and there is nothing to do but prepare them for the “afterlife.” Or, they come to me as it’s happening or just after, looking

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