Like many other men, I have struggled with destructive habits. I have consumed on a regular basis excessive alcohol, disgusting pornography, mind-numbing television, and emotionally-triggering (and unenlightening) news. I have pursued immature, dramatic women, surrounded myself with negative, stagnant friends, and avoided any sort of movement that made me sweat. And I have suffered as a […]
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WHY ARE MEN KILLING PEOPLE? Another school shooting in America. Another tragedy. And another opportunity for this country to reflect on what caused it all. The most common considerations have been, understandably: Guns (should we have more, should we have less?) The media (does the media glorify these events and make people want to do them?) And
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HOW TO DATE OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE At the end of the day, guys get involved in Pick Up for one and only one reason: They want to do better with women. Whether that means getting a girlfriend or playing the field, Pick Up shows men how to interact with women better, makes them more
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THE POWER OF THE ASSUMPTION WHEN PICKING UP GIRLS Most guys freeze when they see an attractive girl walking down the street. They glance at her, their heart pounds, and they ultimately shy away, wondering what they could possibly say to her to get her interested in them. “Should I ask her a question?” “Do
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HOW TO GET A GIRL’S NUMBER Ahh, phone numbers. One of the most talked about things in the world of dating and relationships. Getting a girl’s number – or in Pick Up parlance, “number closing” – is such an important stage that many men view it as a milestone as significant as kissing or sleeping with
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HOW TO HANDLE A MOODY GIRLFRIEND Anybody who’s been in a serious relationship knows: with strong emotions comes intense fights. Once we care about someone and feel comfortable enough with them to not risk “turning them off,” we often start to take them – and their emotional energy – for granted. In other words, when
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IS PAT STEDMAN A MISOGYNIST? One of the most interesting and lovely things that’s happened to me recently as I’ve become a bit more outspoken about my views on dating (and more) is that I’ve been called a misogynist. Is it true? Am I really a misogynist? Well that depends. Truth be told, I’m not
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3 REASONS DEFIANT DONALD TRUMP GETS HOT CHICKS This past weekend I was at a beach bar with a couple of friends and Kate. It was Labor Day weekend and the place was packed, but fortunately, Kate and I managed to take control of a meant-to-be-decorative life guard stand, which not only provided us with seats but a perfect view of
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4 HARD LESSONS LEARNED FROM THE PICK UP COMMUNITY There was a time when I counted my days by the number of attractive girls who walked by me, who I let remain unspoken to. It was the number of girls I desired — not just sexually, but socially and romantically — that I couldn’t work up
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THE SECRET TO CONFIDENCE I talk a lot about things you can do to get a girl. The right way to approach her… The best way to talk to her… The appropriate way to express your desire for her… And they’re all, obviously, very useful. They teach you what to do and give you the
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