I am currently dealing with two clients who are relatively inexperienced with women and, since we’ve been working together, have in the last couple of weeks started seeing girls. One of these guys is in college, and met the girl at an extracurricular hobby. The other, a young professional who met a lady at a […]
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I received a question the other day from a reader about his marriage, which has been in a rough place since, well, approximately the beginning of their time together (nearly 20 years ago). He’s asking me what he should do. An excerpt (skipping some details for brevity): [Basically, I have a tremendously difficult time, and
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Well this email was in big demand, which is not all that surprising since a huge number of my followers are ENTP. So I apologize that I’ve been feeling a bit shit yesterday and today, and got this out not only a day late… but late the next day. (Consider it a meta-introduction to the
My wife and I have a little Halloween tradition we’ve started of watching the Rocky Horror Picture Film each year around that spooky night. (Last year we saw a live performance in a movie theatre while drunk off flat champagne… good times) Anyway, something struck me last year and was internalized even further when I
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I briefly tweeted out a thread yesterday on this topic before deleting it. (The topic wasn’t “red meat” for the twitter… and perhaps a bit too controversial… plus I think threads have become passé) But I figured why not turn it into an email for you guys instead, even if it is a bonus. This
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Yesterday we talked about the “mommy girlfriend” — an insidious problem for the smothered, modern man. Today we’re going to talk about his corollary — the “daddy issues” girl. Now, the problem with a single mother or weak father in the household with a boy is that the boy will grow up coddled and dissociated
“It would be great if you can write about “guys who look for a mother in their girlfriend” i.e. mommy complex or Mamma’s boy. It’s not completely clear to me.” I feel like I’ve covered this topic before but I’ll attempt to go a bit deeper… in the modern age especially, it’s crucial to understand.
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As some of you perhaps saw from my buzzed tweets this weekend, I was at a NY gala. (We’re big fans of “classing it up” and since I don’t anticipate being in NY much longer, best to enjoy the scene.) Anyway, we’re not the only ones who enjoy it. It’s also a big favorite locale
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I was about halfway through an article on Introverted Feeling (Fi) vs Extroverted Feeling (Fe) in seduction, when I bailed. This happens from time to time with writing. I have an idea, and think it will be great (Extroverted intuition) And then I apply my critical lens to it (Introverted thinking) and realize I just
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Hi Pat,this might be a bit offtopic, but something just came back to my mind recently. Before I’ve read “No more mister nice guy“, the sexlife with my wife went downhill greatly after about 6 months into the marriage. It turned out, it was because of resentment on my side and constant pressure for her
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