A reader writes in about an interesting dilemma: Hey pat, would love to hear your opinion on this situation I’m in. I’m having somewhat of a hard time. I’m seeing 2 different women and not sure which one I should get serious with. One of them seems crazy about me, she seems very open to […]
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This is the last post in our informal series on bar game. And I saved you the best for last. Recall from the last email we discussed when to get number at a bar if you want a response. But if you’re planning to camp out at a bar, there’s a variation of this.And it’s
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So yesterday I talked about an “exception” to the usual rule about closing girls you meet out at night. We’re going to get to that in a minute… but first I want to clarify something. By “closing” girls I don’t mean getting aggressive or desperate for a specific outcome. Some girls who are only interested
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One thing that guys tend to mess up is getting a read on why a girl is interested in them. For instance, it’s pretty common for guys getting started in game to generally do quite bad with women… but in a certain situation, hook up with a girl they would normally consider to be a
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Let’s cut to the chase on this one, shall we? If you want to rapidly gain more friends, and meet more women, you might benefit from a couple of things… but one is essential. Meeting more people. Which is why when a client (whose goal was just this) mentioned that he was invited to go
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It’s the day after Christmas, and after a long couple of days with my family… my wife and I are about to hop on a flight to visit hers. Christmas is a serious event in both our families. We always spend the week before with mine, the week after with hers, and trade the day
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A very regular question I get. And one too dependent on context, if we’re being frank, to really answer for you right now. (This is what coaching is for) But let’s speak “macro” for today’s email This question comes up with lot with guys who might be with a girl for awhile, but they’ve started having some
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So I heard an inspiring story the other day. It’s about a girl I’ve known since my youth, but haven’t talked to in a few years. She’s an average to above-average looking girl, though nothing to write home about aesthetically. But she’s clever, confident, loyal, and by all accounts pretty good in bed. (This is
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I got into a conversation with the daygame guys yesterday (always a pleasure), and the topic fell once again upon the topic of a strong woman. Now, this is based on something I said the other day… more or less that “strong men want strong women.” And to be honest, I regret my phrasing. “Strong
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Today’s topic is a biggie, gentlemen… so strap yourselves in. We’ll be talking about something I know not many others talking about. “Friends” who will try to steal your girl (snakes). Now, a caveat before we begin. There are only two things you need to really worry about when it comes to cheating. a) How
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