I saw a woman on the beach this weekend with a horribly disfigured face. I’m ashamed to admit I was curious why. Was it some genetic issue? Of course, you don’t stare, so I only gave discreet, peripheral glances. What was interesting about this woman though was she was clearly in a relationship. The man […]
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Put out a tweet yesterday that went somewhat viral: Unsurprisingly, it pissed off a ton of guys. Many insisted I had issues for even suggesting it. This isn’t much of a shocker for me. I’ve long said that while the manosphere is decent at understanding female nature, they are terrible at understanding their own. Most
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I tweeted out something the other day that I don’t think people entirely understood, and wanted to elaborate on: When many people see something like this, it creates dissonance. They think “I don’t like girls who hurt me, that’s what dumb people do, this tweet is bullshit.” Others view it as pro-sadism or toxic dating;
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This will probably be an exceptionally controversial email. But I want to open the door on this subject, because I find the commentary on female sexuality for the most regurgitated and unconsidered in this corner of the internet. First, let’s take a few well established observations and lay them out: Then let’s take two competing
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Cutting right to the chase… Common source of frustration and confusion among men is when a woman comes on strong, flirts heavy, but then disappears when the guy follows up on her interest and asks her out. I literally cannot tell you how many guys are confused by this, especially those just getting in the
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First I want to start this email with a bit of gratitude. Even though things have gotten more absurd and toxic these past few years as the manosphere has become more mainstreamed, I STILL believe this community is fundamentally a positive place. It speaks to the dark realities of female behavior, and gives a voice
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I am getting WAY too many guys recently lamenting their average-sized equipment. So I’m going to break down the reality of being well-endowed when it comes to dating MOST women. First, let’s use some SCIENTIFIC definitions based on numerous studies of penis size. Micro is less than 3 inches. Small is 3-4. Below average 4-5.
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I’m writing my book at the moment and don’t have much time for emails, but this topic has been coming up a lot with clients… so I’m going to cut right to the chase. As I wrote about long ago, money does NOT generally create desire for women. It creates comfort. Gorgeous women bang dudes
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Some of my most popular emails have basically been analyzing gossip. Whether it’s celebrity news or just something I saw on Twitter, it’s a ton of fun to analyze a situation and draw conclusions based on rules of human nature. The thing is, gossip is normally a very low-vibration pursuit. So why do I do
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My interview with Kati Ivey – Relationship Coach is LIVE Inside we discuss: – what causes divorce– why communicating your feelings won’t necessarily save your marriage– dating after divorce– which guys get 2nd+ dates– hacking the female sex drive + MUCH MORE Watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJWyGrcQ534 LIKE COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE – Pat PS My apologies for moments of technical
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