Very provocative comment from the great Tristan Tate today:
But you know what guys?
He’s right.
In fact, the only thing I’d disagree with him about is semantic — that having a controlling “trad-con” father is as much of a “daddy’s issue” for a girl as having no father.
Which is why I bring it up.
Because I know I’ve got more than a few aspiring trad-dads on here.
So for your own sake and to make sure you actually accomplish your objectives, please heed this warning well.
Instilling the right values in a girl is about LIVING those values in practice and SHOWING their quality.
You CANNOT send the wrong energy outwards and expect the women around you to follow it. They will either go along 100% and be repressed “madonnas” who are terrified of sex… or they will be total whores who self-abuse themselves with promiscuity just to piss you off.
All the feminist degeneracy you see today — how do you think much of that came into play?
Yes, it was a manufactured psyop — but the emotional vector for it was based on the egos of controlling men. The encouraged female liberation was from THESE men, who were then caricatured as the entire male sex.
The point of this all is simple.
You need to provide boundaries for the women in your domain, but these boundaries cannot suppress the identity of these women.
They need to feel LOVED and they need to be encouraged to grow.
A trad-dad who tells everyone to “follow the rules cause he’s the man of the house, and God appointed him” will get REBELLION.
The one who lives in integrity and provides, protects, and inspires will not. Indeed, he will become a barometer other men who later pursue your daughter will struggle to live up to.
The problem?
Becoming such a man is difficult. Because it requires psychological integration.
And most men unfortunately struggle to see let alone deal with these blindspots.
However there is some good news:
You can work with me.
Psychological integration is a key element of the “deep work” in my coaching.
It’s what we deal with internally while I also teach you how to engage with women.
But apply now, and apply fast.
As mentioned yesterday, hourly rates are going up at the end of this month: www.patstedman.com/application
– Pat
PS Check out the other week’s show: Toxic Women, Shame, Eliminating Relationship Issues
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