2023 – Page 3 – Pat Stedman

Interview With Joel Lopez – Men’s Marriage Coach

May 10, 2023 / Pat

My Interview with Joel Lopez – Men’s Marriage Coach is LIVE We discuss: – owning your emotional triggers– parenting differently for each child– female sex drive in committed relationships– male authority vs responsibility– spiritual growth in marriage + MUCH MORE LIKE COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE TO THE CHANNEL And of course, watch the video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZU5zR-kUYw – Pat PS […]

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How To Call Out Bad Behavior Without Seeming Controlling

May 9, 2023 / Pat

One of the biggest difficulties guys have in dating isn’t understanding ideas around attraction conceptually. It’s calibrating them effectively in practice. Which is why I wanted to highlight two tweets from the great Nash I saw on Twitter recently: These are masterful examples of how to handle two of the biggest “disrespectful” behaviors guys encounter

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Interview With Hans Comyn – Renaissance Man & Seducer

May 6, 2023 / Pat

My Interview with Hans Comyn – Renaissance Man & Seducer is LIVE It was really great to finally speak with Hans’; Hans is an “OG” from the seduction world who has kept a relatively low profile. He was a longtime business partner of the famed Zan Perrion (Author of “The Alabaster Girl“). Hans lived with Zan during

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The Power of Expressiveness

May 5, 2023 / Pat

Recently had a tweet go viral about a girl getting some street food: It’s funny what gets attention and what doesn’t. This was a throwaway comment, but apparently the last thing you want to do today is come between a western woman and her psychiatric medication. YetI stand by what I said about more and

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Don’t Run Girl Game On Yourself

May 4, 2023 / Pat

Traditionalists are generally against moving in with a woman until you’re married. This is one of those things that I used to think was silly, over-conservatism, but as I’ve gotten older, I can see a lot of truth to it. Because something very dangerous happens when you move in with a woman. I’m not talking

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The Main Problem I See With Most Men Today

May 3, 2023 / Pat

As you obviously know, I work with guys on their dating and relationship problems. Sometimes these problems have to do with attracting women. Sometimes the issue is attracting the right women. Other times it’s about keeping the right woman attracted. And still other times, it’s simply about breaking away from the wrong woman. (NOTE: I go into

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Why You Should Fight With Your Wife

May 2, 2023 / Pat

As many of you know, there was recently a big “to do” about Steven Crowder and the leaked altercation he had with his wife. I won’t go into that in too much detail here, as I already said pretty much everything I needed to say about it in my recent video. (WATCH: Is Steven Crowder Abusive? |

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Is A Hidden Sexual Past Grounds For Divorce?

April 26, 2023 / Pat

A very interesting reddit post made the rounds on Twitter yesterday: Essentially, a guy and a girl get together, have a chat early on about “notch count.” His is 5, hers is 33. It’s a big disparity, but it’s processed and they move on. Fast-forward 3 years, and they are now married and expecting their first child.

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Interview With Mountain Housewife – Wise Woman & Christian Homemaker

April 26, 2023 / Pat

My interview with Mountain Housewife is LIVE We discuss: – the role sex plays in marriage conflict – homeschooling & homemaking pros / cons – how marriage changes with kids (& once they leave) – overcoming communication issues + MUCH MORE WATCH HERE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=US7Tb9t5VhM LIKE & COMMENT and SUBSCRIBE to the channel – Pat PS I’m also back

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Your Capacity To Stay

April 22, 2023 / Pat

Last night, like most nights, my daughter broke down crying. It was time for my wife to put my son to bed, which meant “mama” — the person she loved most in the world — was once again going to leave her. My daughter is a nearly 2 and a half, and this sort of

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