There are some subjects you are just not supposed to talk about when it comes to attraction. Discussion of techniques is expected. The need to calibrate your behavior based on context, encouraged. The role of intuition, begrudgingly acknowledged — though not much understood. Most people assume, to the extent “intuition” in an interaction with a […]
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My response to the infamous RFH went viral yesterday: Unsurprisingly, many men took issue with this observation (you can check the tweet replies if you wish, don’t want to put the spotlight on anyone who doesn’t wish it). Their primary arguments, to summarize, were: 1) Women are responsible for their own outcomes — if they
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A reddit post made the rounds the other day on Twitter: Basically, this woman and her husband were both fat. It happened gradually since they got together. She was never slim, but she put on more weight over the years, and as it happened he became less affectionate and loving towards her. One day, on
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had a client a few years back who wasn’t one of my better ones. Don’t get me wrong, he was a good guy and I liked him. But he’d disappear for long stretches of time. When we had calls, he’d forget them, or come in late. From a professional standpoint it was frustrating. I will
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Most people assume that, as a dating and relationship coach, most of my job is “giving advice” on how to attract and keep women. Obviously, I do this. Not having competence with women would be embarrassing and would make it impossible for guys to get the results they seek with me. But for many guys,
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I saw a woman on the beach this weekend with a horribly disfigured face. I’m ashamed to admit I was curious why. Was it some genetic issue? Of course, you don’t stare, so I only gave discreet, peripheral glances. What was interesting about this woman though was she was clearly in a relationship. The man
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Put out a tweet yesterday that went somewhat viral: Unsurprisingly, it pissed off a ton of guys. Many insisted I had issues for even suggesting it. This isn’t much of a shocker for me. I’ve long said that while the manosphere is decent at understanding female nature, they are terrible at understanding their own. Most
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I tweeted out something the other day that I don’t think people entirely understood, and wanted to elaborate on: When many people see something like this, it creates dissonance. They think “I don’t like girls who hurt me, that’s what dumb people do, this tweet is bullshit.” Others view it as pro-sadism or toxic dating;
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This will probably be an exceptionally controversial email. But I want to open the door on this subject, because I find the commentary on female sexuality for the most regurgitated and unconsidered in this corner of the internet. First, let’s take a few well established observations and lay them out: Then let’s take two competing
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Cutting right to the chase… Common source of frustration and confusion among men is when a woman comes on strong, flirts heavy, but then disappears when the guy follows up on her interest and asks her out. I literally cannot tell you how many guys are confused by this, especially those just getting in the
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