Yesterday’s email was a hard hitter. And it really makes you wonder — if game lends itself towards validation-seeking, and you want connection instead of validation-seeking… what is the point of game? OK, maybe it helps you to “hook up.” But if you’re not interested in doing that, and you want to move right to […]
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This is going to be an email that falls on a lot of deaf ears. The manosphere indoctrination on this topic is deep; challenging it is likely to trigger many of you. You’ve heard of “momma’s boys,” obviously. And, if you’re a man with any masculine instinct whatsoever, you don’t want to be one —
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One of the classic stories we’ve been brought up on has been the “damsel in distress” Some girl is being taken advantage of by some awful man. You intervene, and tell him to let her go. Perhaps he does. Or perhaps a fight ensues, and the other guy loses. The woman is saved. And maybe
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One of the the common scenarios I deal with in my practice is divorce. Guys come to me either too late in their marriage — they have “terminal relationship cancer” — and there is nothing to do but prepare them for the “afterlife.” Or, they come to me as it’s happening or just after, looking
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Saw something amusing on the timeline this morning: I know everybody’s eyes are probably wide right now thinking about the number of sexual partners this woman just added to her roster in a short amount of time. However I’m actually going to go a little easy on her. Because while I’d be naive to suggest none
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Put out a little poll on Twitter the other day to see what people think about an increasingly controversial topic: Full disclosure before we begin though: Yes, like 99% of men under 40 I have jerked off to porn in my life. And for most of that time I was a fairly regular user. I
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The masterful Niels (who will be on my YouTube channel in the coming weeks) fired some shots yesterday morning: I appreciate these sort of takedowns because manosphere stupidity needs to be checked time to time. There are far too many sock-puppet accounts with a picture of Casanova or some slut that post dog-shit takes pandering to extremes.
Do You Really Want A Sheltered Woman? Read More »
One of the most intimidating aspects of meeting women for guys is the dreaded “approach.” It’s awkward. It’s uncomfortable. And worst yet… as a stranger, the chances of rejection are fairly high. Much of the classic “game” literature has thus encouraged guys to approach in a more indirect way. To pretend your objectives are NOT
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I see it all the time with clients. A man and his woman have some pretty exciting sex when they first get together. Then they get committed and serious. It declines maybe a bit. Then they move in together. It goes down a bit more. Then they get married… and it drops a bit more
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A somewhat spicy email for you today. And one lacking in some of my usual nuance. But a common situation arose with a client the other day… and figured it was time to give my two cents on it. Is it possible to date across the political aisle? The answer, as always, is… it depends. Do
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