A few years back guys doing cold approaches began to have a bit of a curveball. You’d approach a girl, strike up a conversation with her. Things would be going well. Naturally, you ask for her number. But then she demurs… “uhh I don’t give out my number, do you have instagram instead?” When I […]
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A reader writes in: I am a regular reader of your newsletter from 2+ years. Today i got a doubt while seeing a tweet on timeline: In earlier time women used to give birth, breastfeed and take care of child. Men used to breadwinner of family. So men has some value associated to them. But
Are Men Even Valuable To Women Anymore? Read More »
Was asked to comment on a “controversial” tweet the other day: It was fairly funny, not going to lie, because I find the term “alpha female” to be extremely cringe. It’s weird enough when men refer to themselves as “alpha.” But it’s bizarre when women do. It shows they’ve spent too much time in men’s circles… and
What Do “Alpha Women” Really Need? Read More »
One of the things that’s quite common in manosphere is this idea that dating and relationship issues are more or less the same. Why do relationships fail or get stagnant? Because the guy “isn’t desirable anymore.” He’s not alpha. It is taken for granted that these single guys won’t ever mess this up — in spite
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So as many of you guys know, one of my most distinct and powerful concepts I’ve pushed is the idea of “friend-zoning” women. For those who don’t know, this is basically making a woman — and yes, often an attractive woman — your friend rather than pursuing her romantically. The goal being to “plant seeds”
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As you must undoubtably know, there’s a war going on right now between Russian and Ukraine (and increasingly by proxy, NATO). Which means a lot of people — including yours truly — have become “armchair analysts,” commentating on the progress of the fighting, who is going to win, at what cost, etc etc Generally when
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Was asked to comment on a tweet the other day that is sure to trigger some people: My take? While I believe I understand the place that this person is coming from, the phrasing is poor… and is a classic example of someone swinging from one extreme to another. It is is true, for instance,
Is “Independence” Cope? Read More »
I think we can agree one of the worst things to come out of Covid (RIP) was the dreaded “zoom date.” Probably it was something of a novelty in March/April 2020. Back then there was all sorts of excitement about the world ending, accompanied nevertheless with the naivety that things would “get back to normal”
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