Month: November 2021

The Bad Kind of Virgin

Last night I had a bit of fun rattling the hornet’s nest with these tweets: Apparently, much of the trad community REALLY doesn’t like it when you infer that a virgin in her mid-20s who can’t find a man might have some problems. Because if a girl is a virgin that automatically means she’s a …

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Four Doors Your Whores

Something very interesting was reported the other day after the Rittenhouse trial. It turned out that the girlfriend of one of the guys Kyle shot (in self-defense) was “sympathetic” to what Kyle was going through and “offered to be there for him if he needed it.” She then, after testifying, passed him her number in …

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The Male Conquest of Women

Had a conversation with a client the other day that reminded me there’s a topic I haven’t much addressed. We’ve talked before about the romance process, and how it’s the man who pursues the woman. And how it’s a woman’s prerogative to put breaks on that process — to create obstacles, to say “not yet.” …

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Intuitive Vs Cold Approaching

Interesting thread from Nash about a dating guru the other day: Full disclosure: I’m not familiar with any of Zan’s work, though I have heard of him before. His book The Alabaster Girl was recommended to me years back by a very artistic PUA, but I never ended up picking up. What Nash says above about Zan is pretty …

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Should You Propose After 6 Months?

A very provocative tweet went around the other day: The question: is it true? This is one of those very unsatisfying answers… yes and no. “Yes” because he is correct that a girl at 28 should be on track for marriage. And “yes,” she is probably looking for some sort of clarity around whether this relationship will …

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How She Escapes “The Bangzone”

Yesterday we talked about what kind of girls typically fall into the Bangzone — the female version of the Friendzone, where a girl hooks up with a guy she likes regularly but can’t get his commitment. As you might imagine, this is a difficult situation for a girl. Like a guy in the corresponding Friendzone, …

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The Worst Ranking For A Woman

Today’s topic is a little spicy. We’ll be talking about the classic “1-10” ranking system that guys have for girls. And what the “Pat Stedman” version is… and why it matters. But before we go in: I know women hate this. Sorry. Not much else I can say though. This is a natural way men …

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