Heard an interesting comment the other day about models I wanted to riff off it:
The tweet reminded me of an email I had written a few months back… where I posited that 7s and 8s were generally “the best” women that to commit to, as they had the most balanced personalities and were less high maintenance.
It was an email that got a lot of mixed feedback.
Some agreed emphatically, while others insisted their experience was the opposite.
And upon reflection I think I understand why.
Because “hot girls” — the most elite of women aesthetically — tend to cluster in two different directions.
They either become superficial, vapid, and entitled — letting their looks basically take care of them…… or they leverage those looks along with their brains, to become hyper-successful in whatever field they choose. Which makes sense, if we’re being honest. The smartest women know that looks are a serious asset, especially in male-dominated fields… and cunning people never to discard assets.
But it also makes sense because statistically it’s known that looks and intellect actually correlate with each other.
Less attractive people tend to be less intelligent.
So why do we not see this as often in practice?
A couple of reasons.
One, perhaps most intelligent, beautiful women prefer to go into glamor fields because they are able to go further faster in them, and they enjoy the subject material more.
(Remember that brains are very important in “moving up the ladder” — not just hard sciences or law)
But two, because women who are less attractive are going to put all of their eggs (literally) in the “brainy” basket, because that is the only place they can go.In other words:
Hot, dumb girls become “seeking arrangements” types, cheerleaders, etc and use their looks / bodies to get by.
Less attractive, smart girls go into law, science, medicine etc. primarily because their looks are less of an asset and/or disproportionately valuable in those areas.
Hot, intelligent girls go into modeling and fashion because they enjoy it and the attention from guys, and their brains allow them to excel and navigate the business and political elements.
Anyway, I think we can all agree on one thing:
Whether she’s a 7 or 10, merely clever or a genius… the girl needs to be physically attractive and intelligent for her to be a keeper.
Fortunately, those criteria are easy enough for you to determine on your own.
But what about the others?
What about things like values, integrity, psychological health?
Sadly, these tend to drift under mens’ radar until it’s too late.
Which is why the smartest guys choose to work with someone like me.
Because not only can I help them understand exactly what is going on in the brains of the girls they meet…
I show them how to attract them, and keep them.
So if they really do stumble upon a keeper… they won’t lose her.
Apply here: www.patstedman.com/application
– Pat
PS If you’re not a fan of “intelligent” women, read this first. It might clear some stuff up: https://www.patstedman.com/blog/2017/10/30/personality-pheromones-intelligence/
