A very interesting study crossed my path from a client this morning I had to share. Basically the gist is that women who displayed “happiness” were deemed most attractive… while men were deemed the least. Meanwhile, men who displayed “pride” were considered sexiest; women the least. I think we can agree off the bat that […]
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Hey Pat I wanted to ask what your thoughts are on knowing whether a girl is the right one for marriage? I think I’ve dated enough to know what I want in a woman long term, not that I plan on getting married anytime within the next 4-5 years minimum. My gf comes from a
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As many of you know, I’m not one of the more “responsible” manosphere figures. I do not adhere to the stoic philosophy so much as the epicurean — I drink, celebrate, flaneur — life for me is about joie de vivre, spontaneity… not so much regimentation. Which I know will not resonate, at least not fully, with everybody reading this. And
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One of the most annoying things that women do is “nag” And unfortunately for many guys, it’s also one of the hardest things to nip in the bud. Once a woman gets in the habit of doing it, it can become incessant. How to stop this nagging? Fortunately, there are ways. But before we go
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Good tweet came to me the other day from Masculine Millennial: And unfortunately a scenario all too common. Guy starts dating a girl, has shit frame, and his friends aren’t too enthusiastic about her influence on him…… and before you know it, the girl starts isolating said guy from his friends… and if that fails,
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I talked about this on Twitter awhile back, and have been meaning to elaborate on it: The first reaction from a lot of guys, upon seeing this, was the usual cynical frustration you see so often in our corner. “Typical woman, leaving when things get rough” “Hypergamy doesn’t care” But there was an alternative take:
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Following up on the last email… We were talking about CONTEXT when it comes to game. And yet… most of the context we discussed was simply concerning age. Not that it isn’t an important variable. It’s arguably the most important one of all. But a close second is CULTURE. And the truth is that the CULTURAL
Stumbled upon a really good exchange on Twitter that dovetails nicely with a lot of what we’ve been talking about with “context” recently: I love the point that Rivelino made. And it begs a very serious question: Is it game if she’s lower value than you? What is game, really? Now, I don’t want to get
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Heard an interesting comment the other day about models I wanted to riff off it: The tweet reminded me of an email I had written a few months back… where I posited that 7s and 8s were generally “the best” women that to commit to, as they had the most balanced personalities and were less
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