March 2020

Which Girl Should You Choose?

March 3, 2020 / Pat

A reader writes in: Should you aim for compatibility / a best friend, OR should you aim for someone where there is that instant sincere love (that warm feeling you get when you’re with family) That’s the short question. The backstory is I have a girl I’ve dated on and off for about 5 years […]

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The Good Thing About Affairs

March 2, 2020 / Pat

I recently learned an acquaintance of mine is having an affair. Fortunately, right now it’s mostly emotional. There’s been just a few brief episodes of kissing — nothing more. But he’s really on the precipice. Things can’t stay in limbo: he’s either going to end this dalliance, or he’s going to indulge it. And once

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