One thing that’s pretty common with guys just getting into game, and is ironically hilarious, is that they miss the forest through the trees with seduction. For instance, rather than be a player and get laid… they act like a player and don’t get laid. Rather than act natural, they project this overt, cagey, sexually […]
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There is a certain class of women who draws men to herself like moths to a flame. These women are often attractive, though eschew the done-up look of “instagram models” and others. They aren’t masculine, but have an easy banter with guys and don’t try to emphasize their differences from them. They have female friends,
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Harsh little email for you today, but I’ve been reading the tea leaves and frankly I know some of you need a little kick in your pants. This is something I’ve seen a LOT of in the dating world. Particularly among those who have had a long run of failure / settling with women, and
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I was talking with a client the other day about some of the various themes we’ve been talking about regarding fantasy, etc. And as I was talking I said something I realized was quite significant. Something that might even help ye to maintain a strong power dynamic in your relationships. It concerns the very important
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So saw something crazy hilarious the other day through Azalea Banks’ alt account (@BILLONAIRBULLY) (you know, the really aggressive and iconoclastic NYC rapper who got in trouble for simultaneously being a black nationalist and, more importantly, loving Trump): “I saw a weak woman try to control an even weaker man. The weak woman is dedicated
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So yesterday we talked about how much a girl’s “number” really matters for a relationship. And we noted male distaste for a woman who’s been with a bunch of other men. But there’s an exception to this, that most men at least have a hard time resisting. When a girl is a “slut”… but still
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So we got into some interesting conversation yesterday on Le Tweetér about a woman’s sexual history and her “quality.” First off, let’s get some clarification. I’m no rube and I’ve seen the data on n-count and how it affects the survivability of a relationship. “Virgin relationships” have the highest likelihood of working out… followed by
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Gonna keep this one short and sweet since we don’t need no frills around it. Maybe some of you saw my tweet from the other day: “If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, make a happy woman your life.” Well, that right there is the #1 Trait to look for
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So I’m going to air a theory with ya’ll today that I’ve been musing on for awhile… and undermines an enormous amount of current thinking (whichever way you look in the dating world) You hear a lot on the internetz about “what women want” from men. Some claim it’s strength. (This is true, especially physically… but
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The other day I spent some time exploring a salt mine (oldest still-operating mine in Europe, see if you can find it) with a friend of mine. He’s married to a girl he’s been more or less with exclusively his whole life. (If I recall correctly, either him or her “broke up” with the other
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