2019

I Called Her… And I Couldn’t Believe What Happened Next

Today’s email comes based on a tweet by the great artist Delacroix (not the dead guy, his Twitter protege @OfTheDelacroix) —— The girls I’ve talked to on the phone. I’ve met. The girls I didn’t. Flaked. Hmmm….I wonder why, more investment perhaps? —— Well my dear Delacroix, investment is part of it, but there’s something

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The Problem With “Dominant” Men

Well, the response to yesterday’s email was certainly interesting. Got a couple disagreements, though these were well-reasoned and cordial, as well a large amount of compliments. But that tends to be a pretty normal response if we’re being honest. What was most interesting about the last email was the disproportionately high number of women writing

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He’s Vulnerable, Sensitive… and She Follows His Lead?

I received an interesting, complicated question I’ll try to distill here for you… because it’s a very important topic. Basically, the question revolved around how you were supposed to maintain the frame with a woman while being vulnerable… and if it ever made sense to “drop frame.” (For those just joining us on this concept, check out

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