I heard some serious pearls of wisdom on Twitter the other day I had to share. I won’t name names, cause I’m not interested in the drama… suffice to say we’ve had spats before and they’re a red pill sperg. But the content was too important to pass up. Definitely some of the most funny […]
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I tweeted this out last week and it got some attention… though not as much as it should have. (it’s usually like that on Twitter) But to be fair, a lot of people were confused by it. So let’s address that. Boundaries > Tension > Intimacy is the formula for how a romantic interaction progresses.
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Spoiler alert: we’re talking about last week’s Game of Thrones episode today. Small scene that doesn’t have much bearing on the rest of the series though. I only mention it because it was promoted quite a bit after the episode premiered… with a lot of “you go girl, slayyyy” rhetoric around it. The gist: Cersei,
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So last week some of the usual suspects were tweeting about the collapse of some famous british guy’s marriage, James Cracknell. A little backstory: 15 years ago, James won a gold medal at the olympics for rowing. It wasn’t his first major athletic accomplishment. I won’t list them all here, you can read the article, but
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One thing I emphasize throughout my Tackling Texting book is that you should only text a girl under two criteria: – You’re setting up the date– You’re adding value (to set up the date) Details and tactics re: this in the book… but the basic reason is pretty simple. If you get caught texting with a girl without meeting
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The other day I received a question from a reader: “There’s a lady in my life who calls me her soulmate, who is sexually attracted to me (has said and demonstrated this) and who cannot let me go when I have repeatedly tried to pull away. All this, but she says there’s “a feeling” that
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So gonna keep this one short and stupid. I don’t know exactly where you’re at right now, but in NYC something very crazy has been happening this past week. Something that happens every year, and us men look forward to with glee. Spring. Winter is over, and the women are out and about… no more
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The other night I was having a call with a client… and we were talking about one of the more favorite topics of late. Tier 2 vs Tier 1 dating. Now, I’m not going to go much into that topic right now. A blog post on the Tiers of dating will be out very, very
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So a tweet of mine is going viral, figured I’d expound on it: “The reason broken people fall in love so regularly and so intensely is because it’s one of the few ways they can feel whole.” Lot of implicit truth to this one, isn’t there?It occurred to me dealing with a couple of clients
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So, as you know from being on this list, I try to take a kind but hyper-realistic view of male and female nature. Something which is increasingly at odds with the idealistic mainstream. Often, it can seem pretty isolating… just a few guys against the world. But you might be surprised to learn, even in
