Was sent this interesting story from a subscriber a week or so ago, in response to my email about boundaries: “This email made me want to share with you how refusing to chase and maintaining frame saved my relationship with my fiancée.We have been together for almost 5 years. I thought I had a good […]
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A reader writes in: Thanks for putting out great content and actionable advice. I’ve been reading your stuff for probably 5-6 months now. I wanted to run my situation by you and see what you thought. I am a 22 year old guy and I’m struggling with whether to commit to a girl or not.
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It’s a big question I’ve been getting from guys, especially recently. Can a relationship on the rocks be salvaged? Can their woman change? The short answer is unfortunately the least satisfying one: It depends. But I’ll give you some criteria to determine whether or not it’s possible in your case. The first variable is unfortunately
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So a brief email for ya here. Wanted to make a little follow up on the story I mentioned before re: my friend. I noted he had recently acquired a high-quality girlfriend, despite his single-parent status and shady past. Anyway, he matched with this lady on Hinge. (didn’t have time with his crazy life to
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Gonna cut straight to the chase.I’m tired of hearing a phrase uttered all over the “relationships advice” world. A phrase everybody THINKS they want. But, actually ends up only making them miserable. The magic little statement? “Stop having fights!” Pretty crazy to hate on that, right? Who in their everloving mind would want to have
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Obviously need to talk about this topic since I experienced the truth of this yesterday on 2 coaching calls and after catching up with an old friend. Let’s talk about my friend. This friend is one of my favorite people, and an “unofficial” mentor when it came to women. He’s an absolute natural — attractive,
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A reader writes in on a predicament (abridged): “Beginning of May my girlfriend of 3 year asked to take a break. I didn’t ask why but I know it’s because I wasn’t treating her the way I should. I agreed and for the next month I would text her here and there telling her that
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So #ICEBae joined twitter yesterday. I don’t know if you know about this girl, but she’s a meme that cropped up in the past week… basically a hot latina ICE guard who was smiling in front of some illegal aliens who were locked up. (Point of the meme was to contrast her with the other
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I’m back from the grave, friends… and have a LOT to share with you in the coming weeks. In the meantime, though, an email to get you riled up. So the other day on twitter I posted something many were either confused about, or didn’t like: It’s funny that some of the comments accused me
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The following is a little story of something that happened to a client the other day… a lesson he’s now learned, that I believe the rest of you will as well. (Thanks for being my guinea pig bro) Anyway, he had an experience with a girl at a party a couple weeks back. They were
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