The following is about some interesting concepts I got from my business coach the other week.
(who I believe appropriated it from a book, dunno the title)
Anyway, it’s been on my mind… and after I mentioned this on Twitter a few days ago, a couple of you were curious for elaboration.
So here goes:
Apparently, our brain produces different waves depending on what sort of energy we’re creating.
Low resonance waves are tied to paranoia, apathy and depression, and after a certain point actually start to kill cells in our body (suicide).
Above this is anger, the desire to win, conquer, control…
Around midpoint you start to get to just basic human desires for recognition.
Then it’s the desire to learn, grow, help others…
And finally, a sense of contentedness and one-ness with everything.
Obviously, integration tends to mean going up these levels, “nirvana” and what not being at the top.
So, it seems as if the top part is the best to get to.
Mostly true if we’re being honest.
Better to operate from a position of “being” and serving others rather than a position of “having” and taking from them.
But there are times a little dose of dark energy can be useful.
For instance, let’s say in general you’re a pretty chill, confident guy… not possessive, and so not jealous about your woman.
An abundance mindset, you will.
But what if your lady is out there talking to another guy, and the guy is down to clown with her?
Whatcha gonna do bucko? You gonna sit there and let her take it?
Look:
I don’t recommend people fall down the rabbit hole of anger, paranoia, depression…
This is in fact why I don’t engage in political stuff or relate to doom and gloom accounts despite my awareness of the rot society is currently experiencing.But there is a time for different emotions.
If good people feel so good about themselves that they sit around with their thumb up their ass while evil is allowed to roam freely, they aren’t really good… they’re useless.
“Nirvana” is a panacea.
So, when it comes to women… don’t fall into the fear of scarcity.
But if you want a girl, fight for her.
Don’t sit back and allow another guy to monopolize her.
There are moments to tap into that dark, dirty energy… even if you’re otherwise a clean guy.
Sometimes you gotta show her, not to mention yourself, that you are capable of ferocity… of danger…
Too many of us men today have lost that animal side to us.
Which ain’t a good thing.
Because while psychologically, a woman might appreciate the confidence of a chill, no-big deal abundance mindset.
Sexually she will appreciate the confidence of an aggressive, impatient go-getter… who knows what is his, and fights for it.
Balance my friends.
And if you’re looking to achieve it, and attract some lovely ladies in the process?
Work with me.
Cause the beliefs and skills I will imbue in you won’t simply transform your dating life.
But the rest of your life too.
Since while I’m perfectly capable and do go “surface level” and teach tactics, like your garden variety dating coach.
I also go deep into the attitudes that undergird your entire life.
And guess what… fixing that, starts fixing everything.
(I’ve regularly had clients worried they couldn’t afford it, only to quickly recoup my fees in additional income that started to pour in after working together…)
Apply here: www.patstedman.com/application
– Pat
