If you recall, I mentioned an ironic little phenomenon awhile back.
That the guys who were already doing alright with women were the ones most willing to invest in themselves for coaching… compared to the ones that were struggling the most.
Very interesting, no?
But the rabbit hole in fact goes even deeper my friend.
Yes… it applies to women, as well.
I know: I’ve talked about it before.
But let’s catch up on Frame here… because Frame is everything when it comes to women.
(Read: What Is Frame)
Basically though… your frame is what you believe and the strength of said beliefs.
Which is why it’s highly correlated to success with all things persuasion.
Sales, attraction… you name it.
So, if your frame is shit… guess what?
No number of tactics and techniques is going to do you much good.
To the extent they’ll help out at all, it’s because these techniques will give you SOME results, which will enhance your confidence in yourself.
Which is why they do have some value.
But you can have no smoothness, you can be abrasive and have kinda shitty game… but if you have the frame, there’s a pretty good chance girls are going to fall from you.
Because you believe you should get her, and that belief transfers over to her.
It’s a belief that you are valuable and that women should WANT to be with you.
In short:
If you’re not sold on you (really: you and her together), she ain’t gonna be sold on you.
Now, this is pretty powerful stuff.
But frame is hard work to build if you don’t have it.
Indeed, aside from coaching with yours truly… there’s only one “hack” I know that a guy with low confidence and self-belief can leverage to attract a woman.
What’s that trait?
Intuition.
Facts:
If you have a strong feeling about a girl — if a girl is calling to you from across the room…
You have divine providence on your side. This is not some random girl, there is something special to her.
And you better damn well make the move.
Because you WILL be more confident.
Because she WILL respond better to you.
Capiche?
I know, I know… big tip I just gave you today.
Only catch is that I’m sure many of you with limited self-belief won’t know how to discern intuition from “PUA robot hook up mindset.”
You’ll probably berate yourself for not approaching every half-decent girl that crosses your path… and ignore the women who are really calling to you…
… and get subpar results (if any at all), well, as a result.
At least you will… unless you decide to work with me.
Because I know exactly how to rewire your mind so you can be more confident, and get out of your own way.
And go after the girls you really want… (and get them)
Apply to work with me here: www.patstedman.com/application
– Pat
