I found this question to be an interesting one, since it’s something a lot of guys in “this corner” think a lot about… and definitely has some relevance when choosing a partner. For those not familiar, “n-count” is the number of guys a woman has slept with. Now before we dive in… as I’ve said …
I received an interesting, complicated question I’ll try to distill here for you… because it’s a very important topic. Basically, the question revolved around how you were supposed to maintain the frame with a woman while being vulnerable… and if it ever made sense to “drop frame.” (For those just joining us on this concept, check out …
He’s Vulnerable, Sensitive… and She Follows His Lead? Read More »
A reader writes in: Ive been talking to this girl for the past 5 months. We got pretty close made out a few times. In the last month we had a few arguments and now she wants nothing to do with me. She says im a bad person and she was wrong about me but …
So I got a question from a reader yesterday about a very classic issue: how to “spice up” things in a long term relationship, where the sex has become routine and stagnant… (Example: woman wants sex the same way every time, doesn’t want to show parts of her body anymore etc… meanwhile guy wants to …
Cutting straight to the point, there are a lot of reasons why men today “hold back” from talking to women. Some of these are personal. The guys are afraid to approach. Others are social. They’ve been told approaching women is weird. And on top of these are layered the tactical. They just don’t know what …
Why You’re Probably More Attractive Than You Think Read More »
Yesterday on Twitter I made some comments about a little strategy for guys who are “average” looking (or below) to get more girls when they go out. Well to sum up: “these guys should go out with attractive friends who aren’t particularly good with women. Girls will be much more open to your advances when …
Got a great question from a reader on this the other day so let’s explore, shall we? Persona and Personality confuse people for obvious reasons. Persona is like a social veneer we put on around people – a way of acting that is universally attractive. Personality, on the other hand, is who we are — …
So to continue with these 80s movies themes, last week I also saw the Breakfast Club. Which turned out to be a very, very interesting exploration of sexual psychology. Let’s talk first about the biggest character in the film, Bender. Bender is a grungy, edgy guy who dresses like a rockstar, does drugs, disrespects authority, …
Last week I did a bit of a “binge” on 80s movies… an era of cult classic “coming of age” films. One I hadn’t seen in easily a decade was Ferris Bueller’s Day Off. And man was I glad I revisited it. A bit of a spoiler on the plot (I don’t feel bad, the …
Short email here, since we’ve got another one coming out later this afternoon. So got asked this fun question a few days ago from a former client: What is the fundamental issue men who are struggling with women all have in common? I’ll cut right to the chase… To be honest, I’m not sure there …
