So yesterday we talked about how much a girl’s “number” really matters for a relationship.

And we noted male distaste for a woman who’s been with a bunch of other men.

But there’s an exception to this, that most men at least have a hard time resisting.

When a girl is a “slut”… but still gives her best to him.

I believe it was Randy Treibel (@therealrainfall) who mentioned it first around these parts a few months ago.

But men can say what they want… yet if you observe them in action, if a guy falls into a relationship with a girl who really knows what she’s doing in bed…

He usually finds himself pretty satisfied in the relationship.

Now, he might say it’s just a temporary thing.And that he’s just having fun.

But… actions speak louder than words.

Marc Antony, famous womanizer, commander and prodigy of Julius Caesar had no shortage of women in his life.

Yet he chose Cleopatra (for better or for worse) since she knew how to give him pleasure like he never experienced before.

She seduced him, with the mystery and strength of her personality… but also with her sex.

Which is why when I hear much lesser men (no offense) than Marc Antony talk about how they won’t choose a slut.

I tell them to hold my beer.

Because the issue isn’t that simply they’re disgusted, or that they’re afraid she won’t pair bond…

It’s that someone else got their best, and not her.

That they’re getting something “used up” and they’re the rube is going to commit to it.

The truth is simple:

Men expect reward for their commitment.

Manosphere guys get pissed thinking about a girl’s past… about the guy she f*cked in a bathroom stall… they hate this stuff because now she’s pretending to be a “good girl” which isn’t true.

They don’t like the deception, that a girl with a past is marketing herself as something different.

But a girl who learned from those experiences… and who gives the guy a sexual experience he can’t get enough of?

He’s not going to complain very much.

If you offer a guy two committed women: a virgin who is “meh” in bed or a slut who is incredible… I have a suspicion the decision won’t be as easy as they suggest.

So.

As usual, don’t take things people say at face value.

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If you want to learn how they think, and what they’re hiding?

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