I was on call with a client the other day, and as is not-atypical, when trying to explain something to him I came up with a novel explanation. A new interpretation of the universe, if you will. It has to do with my new thing recently about “intuitive approaches” For those who have been sleeping […]
As you know, I put out a little advisory yesterday to women. It was direct. It was harsh. And, it was true. But what’s also true — and men don’t quite appreciate the difficulty of this — is the apparent paradox women need to navigate between biological and psychological attraction. Women need to be beautiful
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Premising this for my boys. No, I am not becoming Matthew Hussey and working with women (though I respect the game). I ain’t switching no teams. But, for the few women on here who might be (creepily) lurking, and for the general knowledge of my gentlemen, I wanted to give some advice. A few pearls
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Yesterday I talked about the quality vs quantity dilemma with women. But a reader noticed a potential discrepancy. To paraphrase: “Pat, does this mean you no longer believe in harems?”An excellent question — since I wrote an article explaining how to get them — which I will answer presently. First though, I want to zoom out. Although
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Yesterday’s email was long, so I cut it short. But there was more business to attend to… and I want to return to a theme I have thought much about recently. Quality vs Quantity. I believe this is the fundamental difference amongst those in the dating community. There are some that believe the way to
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I got into a cordial disagreement with Nash (@daysofgame) on Twitter the other day. Now, I don’t want anything here misconstrued. Nash is very smart, and moreover a good guy. I like him a lot. And, I don’t want to put him on blast. But I think it worthwhile for you readers to understand our
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Yesterday I told you I’d tell you a few more stories about alignment. So here goes. Let’s circle back to Warsaw, end of 2012. Back in this day my dating life was at peak power. And well overdue, if you ask me. I spent the first year of this “self-improvement” process in 2008, and the
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I’m writing this on a plane, traveling across Indian Ocean. By the time you guys get it, however, I’ll be at my final destination. Tasmania. I’ve always had a weird things for islands, particularly temperate or subarctic ones. The more remote the better. I always took this to be (one of many) weird things about
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Although I’m very tuned into the modern dating scene, with its trials and tribulations, I have a bit of a confession to make. It’s a silly thing, really. But I’m so focused on the “deep” end of things with most of my clients, I have forgotten of late to mention one of the most important
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I can tell you pretty directly what kind of people absolutely suck at having healthy relationships. It shouldn’t be surprising.In fact, it’s so boring that I feel stupid typing it. But, it bears mentioning… since 99% of the shit I see the monkeys throwing around the interwebs directly contradicts it. Everyone is so focused on
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