Going to keep this one brief since it’s a bit late and I have a Beaujolais and tracksuit party to go to… despite — or should I say, especially — due to our first snowstorm. (it’s this sort of magical randomness that makes me love NYC) Anyway, the headline is a topic I find comes up with […]
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One of the big grievances of RP guys is that women won’t love you unconditionally. It’s a true statement, though not a particularly interesting one. (Nobody except God loves unconditionally. Even a devoted mother has her limits on affection.) And the emphasis on it can stray into dangerous territory. For instance, while it’s good to know
What Red Pill Guys Don’t Get About Relationships Read More »
Last week I had a call with a new client about his current romantic situation. This is a wealthy, attractive, smart guy. He’s built a big business for himself and has had no lack of beautiful, feminine women over the last couple of years. Nevertheless, he’s been struggling to find a woman that he wants
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I am currently dealing with two clients who are relatively inexperienced with women and, since we’ve been working together, have in the last couple of weeks started seeing girls. One of these guys is in college, and met the girl at an extracurricular hobby. The other, a young professional who met a lady at a
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I received a question the other day from a reader about his marriage, which has been in a rough place since, well, approximately the beginning of their time together (nearly 20 years ago). He’s asking me what he should do. An excerpt (skipping some details for brevity): [Basically, I have a tremendously difficult time, and
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Well this email was in big demand, which is not all that surprising since a huge number of my followers are ENTP. So I apologize that I’ve been feeling a bit shit yesterday and today, and got this out not only a day late… but late the next day. (Consider it a meta-introduction to the
My wife and I have a little Halloween tradition we’ve started of watching the Rocky Horror Picture Film each year around that spooky night. (Last year we saw a live performance in a movie theatre while drunk off flat champagne… good times) Anyway, something struck me last year and was internalized even further when I
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I briefly tweeted out a thread yesterday on this topic before deleting it. (The topic wasn’t “red meat” for the twitter… and perhaps a bit too controversial… plus I think threads have become passé) But I figured why not turn it into an email for you guys instead, even if it is a bonus. This
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Yesterday we talked about the “mommy girlfriend” — an insidious problem for the smothered, modern man. Today we’re going to talk about his corollary — the “daddy issues” girl. Now, the problem with a single mother or weak father in the household with a boy is that the boy will grow up coddled and dissociated
