I was on call with a client the other day, and as is not-atypical, when trying to explain something to him I came up with a novel explanation.
A new interpretation of the universe, if you will.
It has to do with my new thing recently about “intuitive approaches”
For those who have been sleeping through the party, intuitive approaches involve approaching women who “call out to you” on a visceral level.
There’s no logic to these attractions.
Sometimes, the girl isn’t even your type.
But there’s an energy to her — something that makes you feel like you should approach. And when you do, they tend to work out well.
The question is why.
(Hold onto this thought for now)
I’ve talked before about “quality vs quantity” in dating.
But when picking out venues to meet women, you want to consider both.
Quantity being where many women will be. Quality being where women you want to talk to will be.
Quantity is easy enough to figure out.
Quality, we generally determine based on hobbies — or on a deeper level, values.
(Reminder values are THE most important thing determining a relationship’s success)
So where does that leave intuition?
Well, here’s where things get a bit spooky my friends.
I think intuition is a deeper form of connection even than values.
A spiritual connection.
Something that calls from behind the veil.
Something so unconscious, we can’t really describe it.
(it’s a “shared value” that can’t be expressed)
Can I prove this?
Not logically.
Thus some will balk at my esoteric suggestion.
But, that doesn’t surprise me.
Those who date via “logic” are very quantity focused (since logic cannot compute quality). And, are not so much my market.
The rest of you though should take heed.
Because intuition is the only way to find quality in the crowd.
It’s the only way to not avoid having to go to yoga class every tuesday and thursday to meet that zen girl you think you’re into.
It’s the only way for you to do exactly what YOU want to do, and pick out high-compatibility girls along the way.
Crazy, I know.
But once you develop this super power everything will change for you.
And if you don’t know how to do it?
Let me help you.
I know what it’s like to be a “logical” dater, and I know what it’s like to become an intuitive dater.
I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum.
And I know how to shift you from one to the other.
It ain’t for everyone.
(Some people take solace in numbers, not nature)
But for those who seek a different experience, the application is here: www.patstedman.com/application
– Pat
