I think I mentioned the other day about artists and adventurers.
I consider them both to be two sides of the same coin.
One an internal expression, the other external. But same energy.
Same idea, in fact, of expression.
Which is the key here for us today.
If you’ve ever wondered why high-powered, successful men get “cucked” by young, do-nothing fuckboys… it pretty much comes down to one thing.
This idea of expression.
That the former — despite the veneer — is somehow suppressed. He can’t show who he is, he is too concerned with getting ahead — he’s fake.
The fuckboy artist/adventurer, meanwhile, is not.
He may have nothing to show for it, but he expresses himself unabashedly.
And this is intoxicating for women.
It allows women to open up themselves, and breathes life into them.
(especially women who are feeling suppressed by their world)
Now, let it be known these guys don’t always keep women.
And the reasons aren’t just because they are not “stable,” or have no desire to do so.
They may self-express, but it doesn’t mean they’re not fucked up.
(Most are, in fact.)
So they’re intoxicating but then create “hangovers” in the people they get close to.
They’re a lot of work.
(Think: Russell Brand. His game is the rock star classic – no inhibitions, but with a lot of baggage)
But, it doesn’t have to be this way.
You don’t have to be a self-destructive individual to be a self-expressive one.
It just so happens must people are fucked up and very few decide to show it.
They put “bandaids” on their wounds, and tell themselves lies to deal with it.
My approach?
Heal yourself and express yourself.
Become a non-repressed individual who is actually an individual.
(Rather than a social automatron)
Most miss out on this because it’s very scary AND difficult to sort through all your emotional baggage. Cognitive dissonance leads us astray everywhere.
Which is why there are people like me.
I’ll break apart your self-delusions, so you don’t just learn to attract women — you learn to attract them by being you.
(Though note: You may not even know who this “you” is yet…)
Anyway, if you want to be like a healthy artist… go here: www.patstedman.com/application
Breaking down your BS is the only way to feel great AND get plenty of women — especially ones you’ll really love to hang out with.
– Pat
