THE WAY FORWARD In case you missed it, there were some great thoughts by La Playboy in response to my article on the ultimate imperative. Basically, La Playboy took issue with my emphasis on marriage, making the point that most men already prefer to have a family, and that for the rest, there are alternative […]
Today I got a question from a reporter curious about my perspective on men dating women the same age as them. She was specifically asking me what the benefits are — and believe it or not they do exist — but I’m not one to gloss over context. Here’s the bulk of what I sent
This past Saturday was just “one of those days.” My wife and I had a wedding to go to in Eastern Connecticut, and had an early 7AM train we needed to get on to make it. We were running close to the wire when we entered the station, but fortunately we saw the track next
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Meet different people, you’ll realize they all like different things.Some are big on sports, others music, a handful ideas. We all only have a few interests in common. Food. Sleep. Physical comfort. (Maybe) Sex. And stories. Without exception, EVERYBODY is interested in stories. Stories are simply written into our DNA. Most of us in the
Let’s talk a bit about “dread game.” It’s probably one of the most controversial aspects of “the red pill,” and I know a lot of guys have a hard time coming to terms with it. Basically, it’s sending the implicit message to your woman that she is at risk of losing you. This could be
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Hey gents. As many of you have undoubtably realized despite signing up on this list that promised you more, I haven’t had much in the last month or two to say.I think it deserves an explanation. First reason is pretty simple. While I’m learning, I’m still a pretty shitty businessman, and between my clients and
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THE ULTIMATE IMPERATIVE If you’ve been around our corner of the internet, you’ve probably heard the term “feminine imperative” — coined by the highly influential and insightful Rollo Tomassi — thrown around. For the uninitiated, the feminine imperative is essentially the execution of a woman’s sexual strategy: to sleep with a man who is dominant
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As I’ve been investigating personality, the final pillar of attraction, I’ve come to realize a couple interesting things: One, your personality plays a pretty big role in who you attract (go figure) But two, it plays much LESS of a role the more psychologically developed you are. Interesting, no? When you’re personality isn’t developed, you
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One mantra that’s seemingly dogma in our corner of the community are the terms AWALT and NAWALT — for the uninitiated, “all women are like that” and “not all women are like that.” The former is used to ram home the fact that women have a predisposed biological nature that cannot be overridden; the latter
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On the bus down to the shore the other day, a guy in front of me started talking on the phone with a woman. (Not sure if it was his wife, but that’s my best guess) It was pretty painful to listen to. It was clear the two of them did NOT have a good
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