Spend enough time in this corner of the world, and you’ll hear plenty of bitter men talk about how girls aren’t attracted to “nice guys.”
Allegedly, they only like assholes — people who treat them like shit.
*Not* the gentlemen who treat them well and take care of them.
Is this true?
Like most things in life, partly.
Women, contrary to contrarian belief, *don’t* like to be treated like shit.
(Surprise, surprise — no one does)
What they DO like though is to interact with a man who *does what he wants*
And, unfortunately, these “bad boys” tend to embody that.
Yes, a woman (at least, on a visceral level) prefers to be treated poorly by a man who is self-directed than well by a man who isn’t.
But, as a guy you don’t have to fall into that binary.
You can (and should) do both.
Live life and your terms. Make sure the women you invite into it are in your frame.But treat them well once they’re there.
It’s the recipe for lifetime relationship success and happiness.
Anyway, if you want to learn how to set that frame in the early stages of a relationship using naught but your phone, you might want to get my book Tackling Texting.
If there’s anything that distinguishes it from other resources on the market, it’s my *deep* psychological look at frame and the tactics to use to create and maintain it.
Get it now for the price of a coffee: https://www.amazon.com/Tackling-Texting-Women-Natural-Dating-ebook/dp/B06XRC4C5K/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1492015703&sr=8-1&keywords=tackling+texting
– Pat
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