7 Steps To Get What You Want In Dating I am inundated daily with complaints from men and women about the opposite sex. Women are upset they can’t find a good man… or one they’re attracted to. Men are upset they can’t find an available woman… or one who treats them right. Everybody is straight-up […]
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Today I did a podcast with Nabeel Azeez of Becoming The Alpha Muslim on “How To Reignite Your Sex Life.” Nabeel’s audience is young Muslim men who are looking to reclaim their masculinity in the context of their faith, so he invited me on to talk about frame, relationship dynamics, and the biggest one of all –
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Subcommunication and The Art of Mixed Messages A few weeks ago I got dinner with a friend. She was dating a guy, but things were not progressing towards exclusivity fast enough. She asked me what to do. (I don’t generally “switch teams,” but for my friends, anything) I suspected the guy genuinely liked her and
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A few things heard commonly in relationships (or at wedding ceremonies) are variations of the following: “I’m just so grateful to be with my best friend” “You’re my best friend, I love you” “I love that I’m marrying my best friend” Now, don’t get me wrong — I’m not trying to be a dick to
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Recently yours truly had an article of his rejected by an esteemed magazine. Now, no need to get our your torches and pitchforks out in my defense. They’re good people, and I’m OK. In fact — I was expecting it to happen — even though the content was great. You see, even though *I* like
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HOW TO CREATE WHAT YOU HATE One of the crazy things about humans is their ability to project. Aka, taking their own flaws, pathologies, etc. and accusing other people of doing them. We’ve been seeing a bunch of that taking place recently. (“Kill the ‘fascists,’ they are inciting violence!”) But truly, it’s as common in
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Ever wanted to talk to a girl or take things to the next level but “couldn’t” because you felt too anxious? I know it’s happened to me too many times to count. Anxiety is endemic in our society, and in the romantic realm it’s pretty much a given. The more you like someone, the more
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Almost every guy out there has at one point found himself enamored with a woman. So as one of those men, I’m sure you’ve said something like this before (or at least heard it from other guys): “She’s different than other girls” “She cares about me in ways no other woman does” “We really get
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