Month: February 2017

How To Reignite Your Sex Life (Alpha Muslim Guest Podcast)

Today I did a podcast with Nabeel Azeez of Becoming The Alpha Muslim on “How To Reignite Your Sex Life.” Nabeel’s audience is young Muslim men who are looking to reclaim their masculinity in the context of their faith, so he invited me on to talk about frame, relationship dynamics, and the biggest one of all – …

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Your Wife Is Not Your Friend

A few things heard commonly in relationships (or at wedding ceremonies) are variations of the following: “I’m just so grateful to be with my best friend” “You’re my best friend, I love you” “I love that I’m marrying my best friend” Now, don’t get me wrong — I’m not trying to be a dick to …

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The Route To Low Confidence

Recently yours truly had an article of his rejected by an esteemed magazine. Now, no need to get our your torches and pitchforks out in my defense. They’re good people, and I’m OK. In fact — I was expecting it to happen — even though the content was great. You see, even though *I* like …

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How To Create What You Hate

HOW TO CREATE WHAT YOU HATE One of the crazy things about humans is their ability to project. Aka, taking their own flaws, pathologies, etc. and accusing other people of doing them. We’ve been seeing a bunch of that taking place recently. (“Kill the ‘fascists,’ they are inciting violence!”) But truly, it’s as common in …

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The Truth About Anxiety

Ever wanted to talk to a girl or take things to the next level but “couldn’t” because you felt too anxious? I know it’s happened to me too many times to count. Anxiety is endemic in our society, and in the romantic realm it’s pretty much a given. The more you like someone, the more …

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Why Relationships *Really* Work

Almost every guy out there has at one point found himself enamored with a woman. So as one of those men, I’m sure you’ve said something like this before (or at least heard it from other guys): “She’s different than other girls” “She cares about me in ways no other woman does” “We really get …

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