Looks like we’re moving into the big leagues! In December this site got reviewed by Hayley Matthews, Editor-In-Chief at DatingAdvice.com The article was a great look at how I got to where I am today and some of my philosophy of “what’s important” when it comes to helping men. Take a look: http://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/pat-stedman-a-holistic-approach-to-improve-dating-mindsets
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My second interview with the great Nabeel Azeez Enjoy! https://www.stitcher.com/show/becoming-the-alpha-muslim/episode/how-to-develop-your-personality-to-become-a-more-attractive-husband-52431342
Yesterday I put out a little thread on tactics / strategy in the realm of Persona. We’re going to explore this a little deeper now as it involves attraction dynamics. Recall the rule of attraction: men and women are attracted to opposite energies. Masculine desires feminine and vice versa. This is an important thing to internalize,
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WHAT IS #UPSTREAM? There have been a lot of comments and questions about #UpstreamTwitter in recent days — what it entails, what we stand for, what we hope to achieve. We appreciate the interest. But I’ll admit, although the the group nominated me to take a stab at it — these aren’t easy questions to
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I am in a serious rush today, so this will be a bit of a “basic bitch” email. But I want to get it out anyway since it’s been awhile since I talked to ya’ll. (in my “other” job this is a very busy time of the year, and as some of you have seen
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PART 2: PSYCHOLOGICAL ATTRACTION As we discussed in Part 1, pheromones and intelligence lay the ground work for Chemistry to occur. But it is psychology itself that brings two people together, and that is what we will explore now. Our minds are wired in distinct ways, and that wiring determines whether we are drawn to
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PART ONE: PHEROMONES AND INTELLIGENCE Previously in our Three Pillars of Attraction series we capped off the Second Pillar of Attraction, Persona. Now we’re going to finally finish it by tackling Personality. The first thing to understand about Personality is that it is fundamentally different from the other two pillars of attraction. It operates in
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This is a topic I’ve written about in the past, but due to some recent demand I want to revisit. There is much going out these days about personality type-attraction (indeed, I’ve got a post dedicated to it coming out this week). The idea is that each personality type has one type in particular that
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In yesterday’s email, I talked about the dangers of Girl Game. Since then some guys have chimed in my Dynamic Men group. (MEN ONLY JOIN HERE) One thought that came up, and one I mostly concur with, is that the “elite” of girls in the looks category (aka “9s and 10s”) rarely possess solid girl
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Yesterday I put out a brief thread on looks and game; I’m going to expand on that here. What prompted me to dive into this topic was a “traditional” girl account I’d seen around before, but recently came into my feed again. The girl is genuinely quite attractive, and interestingly for twitter dot com, not
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