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Why Your Woman Stops Wanting Sex

If there is one topic that gets the average man to swallow his pride and seek out relationship advice, it’s sex. And the reason is simple: for the vast majority of men, the longer they are in their relationship, the less sex they have. The “honeymoon phase,” where a man and his woman sleep together […]

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The Bad Kind of Virgin

Last night I had a bit of fun rattling the hornet’s nest with these tweets: Apparently, much of the trad community REALLY doesn’t like it when you infer that a virgin in her mid-20s who can’t find a man might have some problems. Because if a girl is a virgin that automatically means she’s a

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Four Doors Your Whores

Something very interesting was reported the other day after the Rittenhouse trial. It turned out that the girlfriend of one of the guys Kyle shot (in self-defense) was “sympathetic” to what Kyle was going through and “offered to be there for him if he needed it.” She then, after testifying, passed him her number in

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The Male Conquest of Women

Had a conversation with a client the other day that reminded me there’s a topic I haven’t much addressed. We’ve talked before about the romance process, and how it’s the man who pursues the woman. And how it’s a woman’s prerogative to put breaks on that process — to create obstacles, to say “not yet.”

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Intuitive Vs Cold Approaching

Interesting thread from Nash about a dating guru the other day: Full disclosure: I’m not familiar with any of Zan’s work, though I have heard of him before. His book The Alabaster Girl was recommended to me years back by a very artistic PUA, but I never ended up picking up. What Nash says above about Zan is pretty

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