How Early Should You Get Married?
An interesting tweet about the differences in marriages came up on the timeline the other day: It’s a poignant observation, though it’s unclear exactly how historically accurate it is if you go way far back. In the 1950s sure, there was a lot of marriage taking place between men and women more or less at the same
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How Often Should You Be Having Sex?
A very common source of anxiety in this corner is sex. You see single guys constantly bragging about the new girls they “piped.” Others sharing conquest stories that make them look like casanovas (even if these were one-offs). Which seems to put the pressure on guys in relationships to compete. In a community focused around
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When Should You Message A Girl Back?
Had an interesting question the other day from a client about my book, Tackling Texting. (A must read if you are trying to get girls out on dates and maintain attraction, whether you meet them online or in person) Basically, a girl he was messaging was taking a long time to respond. He was trying to
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Robert
I worked with Pat over the course of two years. I had reached the end of a 15 year chapter in my life and was ready to move forward. I thought I was ready to move into a relationship. I was wrong. So very wrong. As I worked with Pat, my dating life improved. I
Integration and The Problem with Nice Guys
Something I talk about quite frequently on here is the concept of integration. In case you are unfamiliar, it’s a psychological term, that derives from Carl Jung’s work. Integration is the process of bringing forth the unconscious into the conscious. This can be aspects of the shadow being brought to light. Or it can be
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Do Women Have Opinions of Their Own?
Had a comment in response to my last email, which was interesting. First things first, of course I will agree: politics isn’t sexy. It has not and never will be good policy to attract a woman by talking about current events or complaining about this or that politician or policy. Politics is about dominance hierarchies
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Is This A Bad Time For Dating?
Mike Cernovich had a provocative tweet the other day: It’s something I’ve touched upon, albeit not quite as directly as this. Although there’s no question COVID — and whether you live in fear of it or not — has substantially polarized the dating market. And yet, it’s not really just about COVID is it. People
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Do Not Expect A Proportional Response
A little digression from our usual dating and relationship talk today, at least on the surface. Instead wanted to discuss a little drama going on in the manosphere. As many of you have undoubtably seen, the great Andrew Tate and Coltybrah have had a little bit of a spat. Coltybrah ran his mouth — as usual — and challenged
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Marry Me Or Else
Got tagged in a man’s romantic dilemma on Twitter… a scenario which is not so uncommon: My thoughts? One thing that is extremely common — yet far more lame than most men realize — is the male inclination towards “stubbornness.” It’s a style of masculinity particularly found in hard populations that have sustained a lot
