Are You Willing To Give It All Up?

Are You Willing To Give It All Up?

GROWTH IS PAINFUL I talk a lot here about aspirations. What you’ll get if you do this, say this, or think this way. And I do it for good reason: it’s positive. It gets you excited. It makes you want to take action. Rarely, however, do I talk about what you will give...
What Do You Really Want?

What Do You Really Want?

HOW TO CONTROL YOUR IMPULSE “Want” is an amorphous word. People “want” to lose weight – and yet they also “want” to eat that bag of potato chips. People “want” to talk to that attractive girl – and yet they also “want” to avoid getting rejected. Which want...
The Biggest Thing You Need To Know In Dating

The Biggest Thing You Need To Know In Dating

THE RIGHT DATING FRAME People often ask me what they need to say to attract a girl. And like a good dating coach, I give them some specific tips and help them to troubleshoot their situations. But the truth is I’m lying. Yes, there are best practices – yes, some...
The Commitment Dilemma

The Commitment Dilemma

SHOULD I COMMIT? If you walk down the street, particularly in a big city, one thing stands out to you immediately. Sex. It’s on billboards, with hot girls in lingerie posing seductively. It’s on the sidewalk, with long legs, make-up, and a smile. And when you get...